agree with gail, we try to shift the focus off money, as there is always budget for something beautiful and amazing right - like a dress, ring, shoes, honeymoon - so we like to educate our brides on our excellent design, quality product and remind them that the flowers not just an add on for the wedding day, they feature in almost every single photo, so they deserve to be special ...
You have to make atleast 3 x your wholesale pricing plus labour to make your wedding worthwhile (costs to consider all aspects of labour for all staff involved on saturday rates - so consider initial consult, preparing quotes, following up, second and sometimes third consultations and last minute changes, ordering flowers - or which you usually order more to choose the best quality and make sure bride is aware of this, ordering sundries, storing flowers, boxing, packing, delivery - factor in up to three different delivery locations for some weddings, liasing with reception venue/decorators, picking up vases after the wedding etc etc etc ), also consider what time is spent designing and completing wedding flowers when this time could be spent with other customers in your shop who would spend more money if you could be helping them.....
all things considered, this is why weddings cost money, i am sure ever other wedding suppliers do not discount ... trick is to get in early with a bride as usually flowers are one of the last things organised after all the money has gone..... offer early bird specials on value add, not discount... team up with local hairdresser to do a deal on discount wedding hair doos if book flowers with your shop etc etc....
i would rather not do a weddding, than do a cheap wedding - no point losing money.... approach with a smile, discuss everything that is involved, explain to the bride the hourly rates, ask what they do for a job and ask if it would be reasonable that they would work for free, don't give out written quote if they are just shopping around, and most importantly focus on the romance, the beauty and delight of flowers - they deserve it
$200 for 35 rose posey is good.
vicki